the LOVE workshop

i need to blog more often. hehe. wait, i just want to enumerate the things i learned from our love workshop. bakit hindi na lang kaya magkaroon ng subject tungkol sa LOVE, since, according to ma'am, it plays an integral part in our human relations.

LOVE WORKSHOP
1. hindi totoo ang soulmates. what is the probability that you will be able to find that special someone kung ikaw ay nakatadhana sa iisang tao sa mundo. we find that someone from our circle -- from the closest of friends and from the acquaintances.
2. hindi totoo ang opposites attract. they actually repel. personality differences among couples would cause more conflict.
3. being attracted with someone or loving someone will never be a choice. hindi natin maiiwasan o maipipilit na magkagusto o mainlab sa isang tao.
4. hwag daw maghanap ng kasintahan while in college. ateneo survey shows: around 25% lang ng population ang taken.
5. for psychologists, compatibility is an essential factor in making sure that a relationship would work. many important factors directly affect compatibility like time, money, religion, etc.
6. for a relationship to work, kailangan hindi laging magkikita ang dalawa para hindi madaling magsawa sa isa't isa -- para may misteryo lagi.
7. studies show that women end relationships 2/3 of the time. men suffer during breakups most of the time than girls do.
8. since we're accustomed to the men choosing the women they want, the women are just left with those who approach them. however, it is sure that whoever any man chooses is someone he really likes or loves. mas nagtataya ang mga lalaki. alam nilang 'yung kasintahan nila ngayon ay 'yun na. the women are more practical.
9. it is very good to be realistic when coming into terms with love.
10. whatever we see in the movies about love are most of the time not true.